As a Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®), one of the most common conversations I have with clients is about when to start preparing for a future move. Many know they will eventually need to “downsize” or—what I prefer to call—“rightsize,” but they feel uncertain about where to begin. And that uncertainty can make the entire idea feel overwhelming.

The truth is: everyone has different motivations and timelines, and there is no single “perfect” moment to start. Some people plan to tour retirement communities one day. Others plan to declutter one day. Some say they’ll wait until they officially retire, or until the yard work becomes too much, or until they simply “feel ready.”

But life doesn’t always wait for us to be ready.

It’s Okay to Need Support

Admitting that you may need help—whether it’s with home maintenance, finances, mobility, or decision-making—isn’t always easy. Many of us have spent a lifetime being independent and capable. So recognizing that certain tasks have become harder can feel emotional.

That’s why waiting until a health issue or crisis forces a move often makes the process significantly more stressful. Having a plan in place before a major change happens gives you more control, more confidence, and far more peace of mind.

Why Plan Ahead?

Planning early allows you to:

• Make decisions at your own pace

• Explore options without pressure

• Understand what you truly want

• Avoid rushed or reactive choices

• Prepare financially and logistically

• Involve family members before it becomes urgent

Even if you’re not ready to move yet, being proactive creates a smoother path when the time does come.

Where to Start: Practical Steps for Being Proactive

Here are some meaningful ways to begin preparing for the future—even if you don’t plan to move right away:

1. Get a Current Market Evaluation

Understanding the value of your home helps you plan financially. It gives you clarity on what you can afford, what options are realistic, and what timing might make the most sense.

2. Begin Light Decluttering

You don’t need to overhaul your home overnight. Start with one drawer, one shelf, or one closet. These small steps make a huge difference over time.

3. Tour Retirement or Adult Lifestyle Communities

Touring now—without any commitment—gives you a feel for amenities, costs, and waitlists. When you do need to make a move, you’ll already know what feels like the right fit.

4. Review Home Maintenance Needs

Make a list of tasks you struggle with or simply no longer enjoy doing. Consider hiring help for seasonal maintenance or repairs. This keeps your home safe and well-maintained while reducing stress.

5. Talk to Your Family or Trusted Advisors

Open conversations early help avoid misunderstandings later. Share your wishes, concerns, and priorities.

6. Consult Your Financial Planner or Accountant

Understanding the financial implications of selling, buying, renting, or moving into a retirement community is essential.

7. Explore Housing Options That Support Aging in Place

This could include rancher-style homes, condos with elevators, communities with care services, or neighborhoods with walkability and amenities.

8. Keep an Updated Personal Plan

This might include medical directives, legal documents, or simply a “move plan” outlining your preferences. Having information organized makes everything easier.

Small Steps Today, Big Peace of Mind Tomorrow

The goal isn’t to rush you into making a move before you’re ready. Instead, it’s about empowering you with knowledge, resources, and a plan—so that if circumstances change, you’re not overwhelmed.

Being proactive gives you choice. It gives you freedom. And it ensures that when the time comes to rightsize your home—and your life—you’ll feel prepared, supported, and confident.

If you or someone you know would like help evaluating your home, exploring options, or simply starting the conversation, I’m here as a resource whenever you need it.